The divorce process can be lengthy, complicated, and fraught with painful negotiations. As such, it's understandable that many people make mistakes when they file for divorce.
When parents separate or divorce, determining child custody can be one of the most emotionally charged aspects of the process. Many fathers worry that they will not receive fair treatment in court or that the mother will automatically be granted primary custody. However, Colorado law does not favor one parent over the other based on gender. Instead, custody decisions—legally referred to as parental responsibilities in Colorado—are based on the child’s best interests.
Understanding fathers’ legal rights in a Colorado custody case can help dads take the right steps to protect their relationship with their children. Whether you are seeking joint custody, primary custody, or fair parenting time, knowing your rights and responsibilities is essential.
In the past, courts often awarded primary custody to mothers based on outdated societal norms. However, Colorado law has evolved to focus on the best interests of the child, regardless of the parent’s gender. Fathers have equal rights to seek custody and parenting time, and the court evaluates each parent's ability to care for the child rather than making assumptions based on traditional roles.
Under Colorado Revised Statutes § 14-10-124, judges must consider multiple factors when determining child custody, ensuring that both parents have an equal opportunity to present their case. Fathers who actively participate in their child’s life, provide a stable home environment, and demonstrate a willingness to co-parent are just as likely to receive joint or primary custody as mothers.
Colorado does not use the terms "custody" and "visitation" in legal proceedings. Instead, the state refers to custody as parental responsibilities, which are divided into two categories:
In many cases, courts prefer a joint arrangement where both parents share these responsibilities. However, if one parent is unfit or unable to provide a safe and supportive environment, the court may award primary custody to the other parent.
Fathers seeking custody should understand how courts evaluate parental responsibilities. The court considers several factors when determining an appropriate custody arrangement, including:
The most critical factor in any custody case is what will serve the child’s best interests. Judges assess which arrangement will provide the child with the most stable and nurturing environment.
Fathers who have been actively involved in their child’s daily life—including attending school events, helping with homework, and participating in extracurricular activities—demonstrate their commitment to parenting. Courts look favorably on fathers who play an active role in their child’s development.
Fathers seeking custody should be able to show that they can provide a safe and consistent home environment. Factors such as financial stability, living arrangements, and work schedules can influence the court’s decision.
Colorado courts value cooperation between parents. A father who demonstrates a willingness to communicate with the other parent and support a healthy co-parenting relationship is more likely to receive joint custody.
If there are allegations of domestic violence, substance abuse, or other behaviors that could put the child at risk, the court will consider these factors when making custody decisions. Fathers with a history of these issues may need to demonstrate rehabilitation before receiving significant parental responsibilities.
Fathers who want to secure custody or increase their parenting time should take proactive steps to build a strong case. Here are key actions that can help:
For unmarried fathers, establishing legal paternity is the first step in securing custody rights. In Colorado, paternity can be established voluntarily by signing an Acknowledgment of Paternity or through DNA testing if the mother disputes the father’s claim.
Fathers should be consistently involved in their child's upbringing. Attending parent-teacher conferences, medical appointments, and extracurricular activities can demonstrate a strong commitment to parenting.
Maintaining records of communication, visitation, and financial support can provide valuable evidence in court. Fathers should document text messages, emails, and receipts related to their child’s care.
If a temporary custody order is in place, fathers should adhere to all guidelines. Violating court orders can negatively impact the outcome of the case.
Family law cases can be complex, and legal representation can help fathers present a compelling case for custody. An attorney can advocate for fair parenting time and protect fathers’ rights in court.
While courts generally favor shared parental responsibilities, full custody (sole decision-making and primary parenting time) can be granted to a father if the other parent is deemed unfit or unable to provide proper care. Situations where a father may be awarded full custody include:
If a father already has a custody arrangement but wishes to request more parenting time, he may petition the court for a modification. To change an existing custody order, the father must demonstrate a significant change in circumstances that affects the child’s well-being, such as:
Courts review modification requests carefully, so providing strong evidence is essential.
Fathers have the same rights as mothers in Colorado child custody cases. By staying actively involved in their child’s life, following court procedures, and demonstrating their ability to provide a stable home, fathers can secure fair parental responsibilities.
If you are a father seeking custody or need help protecting your parental rights, contact us today. At Colleen McCoy Family Law, we are committed to helping fathers achieve the best possible outcome in their child custody cases.

The divorce process can be lengthy, complicated, and fraught with painful negotiations. As such, it's understandable that many people make mistakes when they file for divorce.
When parents separate or divorce, Colorado courts issue a custody agreement—known legally as a “parenting plan”—to protect the child’s best interests and provide structure for co-parenting. This plan outlines where the child will live, when each parent has parenting time, and how major decisions are shared or divided. It’s a court order, meaning both parents […]
It's crucial to know your rights after a divorce, especially when it comes to decisions regarding your child.
Copyright © 2025 | McCoy Family Law, LLC | All Rights Reserved | HTML Sitemap | XML Sitemap | Terms & Conditions | Privacy Policy